For readers of the book

You finished the book. Now the boring part.

This page exists because I told you it would. It holds the fourteen day tracker, the Money Story Mirror prompts, and every source behind every number in the book. Nothing here is gated and nothing here asks for your email.

The book is complete on its own. If you never come back here, you still have everything you need. This is just the version you can print and stick somewhere you will see it.

Companion one

The fourteen day tracker

One thing a day, ten minutes or less. The first five days ask nothing of your kid, because you practice on yourself before you practice on them. Two days ask you to do nothing at all, and those are real days, not filler.

Missing a day is not failure and it resets nothing. There is no streak here to protect. Pick up where you left off.

  1. Day 1
    Name your own storyFinish one sentence from the Money Story Mirror. In writing. The one you skipped.
  2. Day 2
    Catch one reactionMoney comes up today. Notice what happens in you before you think. Do not fix it.
  3. Day 3
    Say the reasoning out loudNarrate one small money decision within earshot. Ten seconds. No lesson attached.
  4. Day 4
    Catch yourself mid-reflexHear judgment coming out of your mouth, stop, and back up out loud. Once is enough.
  5. Day 5
    Do nothingA real day of the plan, not a gap in it.
  6. Day 6
    Ask one better questionSwap one autopilot question for a real one. Let the answer be short.
  7. Day 7
    Feeling before issueIn the first tense moment, name the feeling before you touch the problem. Then stop talking.
  8. Day 8
    Run a reason check on yourselfName one thing you talked yourself out of, and what the excuse sounded like. Do not ask for theirs.
  9. Day 9
    Money you direct on purposeKeep it hypothetical. If that landed in your hands tomorrow, what would you do with it?
  10. Day 10
    Ask for the downsideOne follow-up on yesterday. How could that go badly? No correcting.
  11. Day 11
    Do nothing againIf you missed days, this is where you catch your breath, not where you catch up.
  12. Day 12
    The shared taskInvite them into something ordinary that has an ending. Focus on the task, not on them.
  13. Day 13
    Let them decide one thingHand over one small decision that is genuinely theirs. Then stay out of it.
  14. Day 14
    Look backWhat changed, what did not, and the one thing worth keeping past today.

There is no day fifteen. Pick the one thing that worked, keep it, and let the rest go. One small thing you keep doing for a year changes a household. Two weeks on its own changes very little.

Chapter and verse for each day is in the book. This is the tracker, not the teaching.

Companion two

The Money Story Mirror

Five sentences from the end of Chapter 1. Two quiet minutes. Do not polish the answers and do not try to fix them. The only goal is to notice what is already there.

  1. Growing up, money usually meant
  2. The phrase I heard most often about money was
  3. When I feel financial pressure, I tend to
  4. The struggle I have worked hardest to keep my child from feeling is
  5. From watching me, my child may believe that money is

Noticing a pattern is not the same as being blamed for one. You are the loudest voice on money in your house. You are not the only one.

Companion three

Where the numbers came from

The book makes a small number of factual claims and each one carries its date, so you can see how old it is and check whether it still holds. The full notes are in the back of the book. The short version:

  • Financial education in schools. Next Gen Personal Finance, 2026 State of Financial Education Report, April 2026. Thirty states have adopted a standalone requirement, up from eight in 2020, and about 35 percent of public high school students in the Class of 2026 attend a school where it is actually required. These figures move with legislative sessions.
  • The teen brain and the parent's voice. Abrams, Mistry, Baker, Padmanabhan and Menon, The Journal of Neuroscience 42, no. 20 (2022), doi:10.1523/JNEUROSCI.2018-21.2022. Forty-six participants, every voice tested was female, and the stimulus was a nonsense word under a second long. It did not measure advice-taking or teaching.
  • Readiness and adolescent development. Steinberg and colleagues, American Psychologist (2009), and Icenogle and colleagues, Law and Human Behavior (2019). The four readiness cues in Chapter 7 are a parenting heuristic, not a validated assessment.
  • The Barbell Strategy. Popularized by Nassim Nicholas Taleb. The version taught in the book is an adaptation for teenagers, not a description of how anyone should invest.
  • The epigraph. Frederick Douglass, "The Blessings of Liberty and Education", Manassas, Virginia, 3 September 1894. The more famous line often attached to his name is not in his collected writings, and the book explains why it was removed.

Found something out of date, or something I simply got wrong? Write to jay@outsmartthesystem.org. You would be doing the next edition a favor.

If you want to keep going

Where to go next

Only if you want to. The book was built to work on its own, and the fourteen days above are the whole next step.

Teen Side Hustle

For the teenager who wants to build something. Idea to plan to first paying customer, with the teen doing the work and owning the result.

See the side hustle track

Teen Investing

Education, not advice. How to think about risk, ownership and time, starting on paper, with the parent in the loop throughout.

See the investing track

Strong Hour

The one for the adult in the house. Consistency and behavior, for people who already know what to do and keep falling off anyway.

See Strong Hour

Two other free things, if the book left you wanting more reading rather than more programs:

The 5 Money Stories primer, which names the patterns that pass silently from a parent to a teen.
The free parent masterclass, when the next one is scheduled.